Popping The Question to your Bridesmaids
Will You Be My Bridesmaid?
So your fiancé popped the question, you’re engaged and now you’re busy as a bee planning your wedding! Time for you to pop the question and to call in the female (or male ala Made of Honor movie) forces by proposing “Will you be my bridesmaid or Maid of Honor?” to your closest friends and loved ones. It’s time to pop the question and ask your besties ‘Will you be my bridesmaid!’ in the most fun, creative and meaningful way possible!
As you will undoubtedly be spending tons of precious time together both before and on your wedding day and you’ll be relying on your bridesmaids plenty, it’s a sweet gesture to spoil them with a thoughtful invitation and gift.
Here are a few memorable ways of popping the question, some with an element of wit, some with a dash of surprise and many meant to be treasured by your bridesmaids as keepsakes of your special day!
Will You Be My Bridesmaid?
Make sure you read our article on how to select your bridesmaids, here. Once you’ve asked your girls to be their by your side, here is a list of typical bridesmaid duties – as well as a list of maid of honor duties, too!
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(Left) Bridesmaid Proposal Box: Will You Be My Bridesmaid? Have your bridesmaid’s name displayed on her own personalized keepsake box in gold metallic vinyl! This chic white and gold bridesmaid keepsake box is perfect for filling up with pamper gifts and momentos of your friendship. Get it from ModParty here.
(Above) A “Will you be my maid of honor?” keepsake puzzle that will be a surprise for your intended bridesmaid. Once the puzzle is solved using the few clue letters, it can be framed and cherished as a keepsake after ward. Made from linen and dressed with buttons and feathers. {Available from: Nostalgia At High Tea in California, US at $30.00 USD}
(Above ) Will You Be My Bridesmaid Bracelet. Pop the question to your bestie with this gold plated monogram bridesmaid bracelet, complete with sparkly charm! It’s delivered in a pretty box with watercolor flowers declaring: “I need you by my side, will you help me tie the knot?” Get it here.
(Above) Customisable beer can cosies that reads “I (moustache) you a ?” on one side and “Be my Bridesmaid?” on the reverse within a curvy frame presented on a quirky moustache-patterned background. {Available from: The Monogram Line in Pennsylvania, US at $7.25 USD}
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(Above) Start forming your official bride tribe! Gift your besties these glam gold Bride Tribe temporary tattoos when you ask them to be your maids!
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(Above) This beautiful, painted Will You Be My Bridesmaid mug can be personalized with your bridesmaid or maid of honors name, and wedding date in modern calligraphy. And how cute is that pink, cerise and purple watercolor floral bouquet illustration? Grab it for your bestie here!
(Above) Will You Be My Bridesmaid Coloring In Card. This cute, artsy card is creative and gorgeously zen! Plus, their are options for bridesmen too. Grab this bridesmaid proposal idea from April Heather Art here. {Photo: Danielle Thompson}
(Above ) They say I’ll need someone to hold my dress up while I pee… Will you be my bridesmaid? Cute and funny! Grab this illustrated mug with calligraphy lettering and optional personalization on the other side from ByTracey here.
(Above Left) I can’t say I DO without you in a god awful dress. 🙂 Grab this funny and sweet will you be my bridesmaid card from Patterson Paper here! | (Above Right) A ‘Will you be my Bridesmaid?’ wine label that includes your bridesmaid’s name, details of your wedding and a personalized message that hints at the future shared enjoyment of the wine! {Available from: Lil Shop of Labels in South Carolina, US at $25.00 USD}
Oh yes, have a peek at these cute bridesmaid gift ideas to thank them after the big day, too!
(Above) Bridesmaid Balloon Proposal. Pop the question to your girls with this gorgeous gold foil card which states: “I can’t say I DO without you! Will you be my bridesmaid? “ Get it online from ModParty here.
(Above) A rustic-loving ‘Be My Bridesmaid/ Maid of Honor?’ wooden frame with your bridesmaid or Maid of Honor’s name and a dress design engraved on it. Pop a memorable pic of you with each of your best mates in their special frames. {Available from: Prince Whitaker in US at $17.99 USD}
(Above) A sweet and tasty way of asking ‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid/ Maid of Honor’. Spoil your bridal party with these delicious marble chocolate candy that spell out the “Big Question”! {Available from: Chocolate Says in US at $104.00 USD}
(Above) If you’re inviting your quirky gals to be bridesmaids at your wedding, these totes fun cute custom made bridesmaid proposal magnets for your bridesmaids are a awesome idea! {Available from KitAtlas here}
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(Above) A hilarious ‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid/ Maid of Honor?’ fold-out card with a cheeky phrase, ‘Try to look fat.’ on the cover. {Available from: Finch and Hare in US at $5.00 USD}
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(Above) Will You Be My Bridesmaid Personalized Puzzle. Pop the question to your gals with a custom made puzzle. Choose hair styles, colors, and robe colors too.Yes, there are also options for bridesmen proposals. Grab this bridesmaid puzzle from April Heather Art here. {Photo: Danielle Thompson}
(Above) 15. A Maid of Honor gift meant specially for your sister! This gift set contains a card that reads ‘The only thing better than having you as my sister is having you by my side as my maid/matron of honor!’ and a sterling silver freshwater pearl necklace with an infinity symbol. {Available from: So Blessed Designs in Missouri, US at $36.00 USD}
(Above) A custom-made bracelet or cuff with the message ‘I couldn’t say “I do” without you’ hand-stamped on the outside is the perfect way to pop the question and to spoil your bridesmaids. Each of your bridesmaid’s names or initials can be added to this keepsake bridesmaid gift as an extra special touch. {Available from: Pure Impressions in US at $19.00 USD}
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(Above Left) I might Pee On You will you be my bridesmaid card from FINCHandHARE. // (Above Right) Get me stripper card from Finch and Hare .
(Above Left) Stamped “Will you be my bridesmaid” muslin bags. // (Above Right) Shit Just Got Real Bridesmaid Proposal Card from JulieAnnArt.
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(Above Left) Will you be my Bridesmaid Box from ModParty. // (Above Right) Will you be my bridesmaid mug available in two cute designs here and here from By Tracey.
(Above left) I can’t tie the knot without you bridesmaid card from Marry Grams. // (Above Middle) I’ve got my guy but I need my girls wine label from Studio B Labels.
(Above) DIY Pop the Balloon bridesmaid proposal kit from Petite25.
(Above) This funny bridesmaid proposal card pretty much sums up all Pinterest addicted brides … “I am depending on you to make my Pinterest wedding a reality! Will you be my maid of honor?” Grab it from PattersonPaper here. // This funny bridesmaid proposal card is for friend who’s been with you through all of your ups and downs! “You helped me through all the frogs, now help me tie down the prince!”
(Above Left) ‘Too disorganized to plan a wedding alone! Will you be my bridesmaid?’. This sweet and somewhat endearing cry for help is an honest, humorous and totally cute bridesmaid proposal card. // (Above Right) The two things I’m sure of? The dude I’m marrying … and … I want you standing next to me! Will you be my bridesmaid? Grab this bridesmaid proposal card from Wedding Affections online here.
(Above) Scratch Off Will You Be My Bridesmaid cards. WRITE YOUR OWN MESSAGE! These cute scratch off Bridesmaid cards let you handwrite your own bridesmaid proposal text to pop the question to your bride tribe! Check them out here.
(Above) After you’ve completed your bridesmaid proposal and your girls have said yes, check out these 30+ cute, funny and stylish bridesmaid shirts and bridal party tee shirts perfect for bride tribe shopping trips, as bachelorette party tees or for getting ready the morning of your wedding!
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More helpful articles and links for yourself and your bridesmaids:
- Advice for selecting your bridesmaids
- Bridesmaid Duties
- Maid of Honor Duties
- Super Fun Wedding Photo Ideas for your bridal party
- Fun and thoughtful bridesmaids gifts to thank you gals for all their help!
- Wedding Day Emergency Kit & Checklist for your bridesmaids to print and keep
- Wedding DIY projects to try with your besties
- Loads of awesome wedding hairstyles for bride and bridesmaids
Once you’ve popped the ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ question, we suggest you begin pondering all of the ways in which you can capture the many special moments with your bridesmaids on your wedding day. Grab a couple of ideas from this winning collection of Wedding Photo Ideas for your Bridal Party!
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